Hello, friends! Hope everyone’s enjoying their week. Hump day is over, huzzah!
Wanted to talk a little tonight about my love of older men. Ye Gods, I’m attracted to them. I’ll set the scene a little: I’m 23 and my ideal age range is 30-35 but I am so attracted to men in their forties as well.
I’ve been recently becoming curious in the babygirl/daddy type of relationship (without all the binkies, diapers, and footie pjs -that is just not for me!) Something about the protection quality involved is so enticing to me. But I’d like to have children sometime in the near future and I want my man to be young enough to keep up with them! Which just brings me back to my basic conundrum which is finding the right balance between BDSM and my nilla life.
Meanwhile, my search for the perfect Dom is not going so well. I was talking last week to someone who was attractive but a little older and the talk was all sex, sex, sex. We set up a tentative coffee date next Wednesday but I haven’t heard much from him recently and for that I’m secretly glad. It seemed like any kind of relationship coming from that would have been all sex and no actual commitment.
I also was approached by another gentleman who is (according to his profile) 47. Which is pretty much definitely out of my age range. But his messages and profile are so eloquently worded and have not been out of line or disrespectful like most of the messages I receive. I would love to talk more with him, get a photo, and see where things go.
So that’s where I stand today – be well!