Or do the people I meet online just don’t give a fuck?
I am on a kinky social networking site. I recently joined one of the groups and posted an advertisement. Besides it being made quite clear on my profile itself, I also posted in the ad the following:
“Hi, all! I’ve been on *** searching for a LTR (and friends, of course!) for several months and after perusing…“
“Please PM me if:
You are 23-40
Live in New England (would consider long distance but definitely not a preference)
Define yourself as a Dom or Daddy Dom
Are independent (own place)
Love bigger women
Searching for a LTR“
Has it been made clear that I want a LTR?? And yet 100% of the responses that I receive are from idiots looking for a quickie. Are we for real, people? As I’ve stated many times previously, there are other places you can go for a quickie! I am not those places!
In one of the messages I received in response to this ad was this gem. A gentleman contacted looking to be my Dom (as if I can just snap my fingers and say, “You’re it!”) I gave him the benefit of the doubt and replied. He asked to learn more about me.
I responded with two short paragraphs about who I am, what I like, and what I’m looking for. I asked him the same. Here is his response: “about me hmm i list all my interests on my page“
Well, hello Mr. Idiot, so do I!!! But I still took the time to reply to your question! So I still am giving him the benefit of the doubt. He asks for a face photo, I provide it. He says: “so not to sound dirty but thats a majorrr turn on when your down on me looking up“
You sound dirty! You know you sound dirty! You meant to sound dirty! You are annoying me at this point!
I respond with: “I am looking for a serious relationship, hope I made that clear enough! I’m really sick of the fwb’s/one night stands. I’m ready to meet someone I can have a LTR with and also a family with one day.“
He says: “oh soo am i didnt mean to throw you off“
He sounds apologetic so I respond to him and ask if he’s been a Daddy Dom before (my ad was posted in a Daddy Dom group, something I’m relatively new to) and he replies with: “i have before yes and i would like to be your new dom daddy” And then asks what town I live in.
I ask if he can tell me about his past experience with it and he again asks me for my specific location. Okay bub, we’ve exchanged less than a dozen messages. Of which you don’t write more than two damn sentences…and you want me to dole out all my personal information?
I ignored this question and get another message of “Hello?” five minutes later.
It’s frustrating that I can’t find my perfect match. Where is my wonderful Dom to sweep me off my feet and have an actual conversation with me?
*sigh* This subbie is frustrated tonight.